Nikki Bould

Nikki Bould is an accredited Family Dispute Resolution provider, workplace mediator and certified divorce coach.

She supports co-parents to engage in constructive decision making and reach child focused outcomes. Her work is grounded in alternative dispute resolution principles and a thorough understanding of family systems.

Nikki’s approach is calm, structured and supportive. She ensures all voices are heard within the process, while keeping discussions future-focused and purposeful. Her approach is guided by a strong focus on the best interests of children, supporting parents to make decisions that are practical, sustainable and responsive to their children’s needs. Where emotions are heightened or conversations have become difficult, she brings a calm and steady presence, de-escalating conflict and supporting more productive communication.

Alongside her mediation work, Nikki is the Director of Learning and Development in New Zealand for Divorce Coach Certification and delivers professional training in specialised separation support. She is a co-founder of the Aotearoa Divorce and Separation Institute, promoting ethical practice and professional standards across the sector. She has extensive experience working with complex matters and has been a proud volunteer for Citizens Advice Bureau, providing free support to people experiencing separation and relationship challenges since 2022.

Born and raised in the South Island, Nikki is now based in Auckland and works with families and organisations nationwide, including by Zoom or phone.